[ Be better ] La Dolce Vita

I knew about the phrase “La Dolce Vita” since I read a travel book many years ago. When the phrase was mentioned on that book, I found the information and paragraph on the Internet to discover about it. Oh, it was an Italian phrase, means “sweet life”. And, is having a “la dolce vita” life as hard as many people think?

For me, it is not quite difficult.

I might be a lucky person who can live without the stresses from work, financial statement, relationships around… I’m having a freelance job where the benefits can help me to live comfortably. Actually, there are still uncertainties that I never want to happen in my life. But, when I changed my attitude, everything has been being better. I can enjoy my life by my own way.

First of all, I tried to work as much as I can by arranging every job in a plan on early of every week. I think if working is only to earn money, I will feel tired and out of energy especially when facing the difficulties. All my jobs now are my interests. I absolutely love what I am doing now. Following this, I can understand the job clearly and find the best method to do them with the best results on it. After trying many works, I can find one or some jobs that are not only my interest but also can bring money to me.

Moreover, I never stop learning new things. When my older daughter came to kindergarten, I studied playing piano. I keep studying Chinese every day by using mobile application. I am learning design by myself and I plan to go to an art class… Following the studying process, I realized that there are an enormous interesting knowledge that I haven’t known, it requires me effort more and more everyday.

Sometimes, after waking up in the morning, I suddenly feel tired and I don’t want to do anything. I choose relax, put all the things there and relax for a day. Because on those days, even I try to do everything, I cannot get the best results. Relaxation will “charge” me, help me back to the “full of energy” situation. And then, all thing will be better.

Many my relations claim about why I have to study and work so much while I don’t have any financial pressure. Actually, I don’t care about it because they are not the people who can support me in both physical and mental life. I smiled at their claims and have been continuing my life.

That’s my “La Dolce Vita”,

And it isn’t too difficult.

J

Oct 8, 2020

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